MEET JOHO DAD MAZOLA MOLEFE


Before

Ive always thought being a father would be a tough ask, but I must confess that Ive been keen to be one for as long as I can remember. My wife and I will be celebrating our five-year anniversary in September, and although our daughter is barely a year, she will reveal that I wanted children quite early on.

Its strange, but sometimes I used to day dream about fatherhood and how things would turn out with me as a parent. I never really thought about the expensive diapers, making sure our cold house [in winter] is constantly warm for the baby and of course the obsessing about schools and the future. All I wanted was a child to call my own. My parents had long picked a name. A boys name because they thought a our first-born would be a boy J  


After

Mom and baby should have stayed in hospital a bit longer. That is literally what went through my mind when I came back from fetching them from the hospital because I had no clue what to do next. Do we sit with the baby in the bedroom until she sleeps? Is the bedroom our new home now? Or do we take her camp cot and set it up in the living room?

We figured it out a day or two later, but it was exciting and slightly unnerving. I also think that with Mom being on maternity leave for a few months before going back to work not only helped her, but went a long way in helping me adjust too. I honestly was walking on cloud nine during these early stages and it's partly because of this somewhat smooth transition that baby No.2 is definitely on the cards.  


Now

I will be honest and there's nothing I would do differently. We would still love to be blessed with one or two more kids. We've also come to believe that children are as expensive as you want them to be. When youve been married for a while and dont immediately have kids, by the time you start a family you have tried to pre-empt and prepare ahead as much as possible. From here onwards, its going to be a learning curve. 


8 comments:

  1. Lovely pics, Ntate and Nandi look great. :-). We are blessed to have such an easy baby.

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  2. TooCute!! you have a beautiful baby. #PoutOnPoint ;)

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  3. Thanks for sharing, nice post!

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